You're not weak. you're

trauma bonded.

here's how to break free

6 Steps to Breaking a Trauma Bond - understanding why you're still stuck, and the steps to reclaiming your peace, power, and yourself

Guided by someone who truly understands, and has been there

Narcissistic Abuse

Specialist™️

A globally accredited, trauma-informed certification in narcissistic abuse, focused on personality disorders, manipulation tactics, trauma bonds, and the impact of trauma on the brain and body

Somatic Trauma Informed Coach

An ICF-accredited somatic trauma-informed coaching certification focused on the autonomic nervous system, polyvagal theory, attachment theory, and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs)—exploring how trauma shapes behaviour and survival responses

Trauma Informed Domestic Abuse & Coercive Control Practitioner

A CPD-accredited certification covering the dynamics of power and control, trauma bonds, the physiological impact of abuse, and a survivor-centred approach..

Every woman deserves a relationship built on

safety, respect, and genuine love

Michelle Inder

I'm Michelle Inder — Narcissistic Abuse Specialist, Somatic Trauma Informed Coach, and Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control Practitioner.

I work with women who lost themselves in a neglectful, toxic, or emotionally abusive relationship — women who gave everything, walked on eggshells, and slowly disappeared trying to keep the peace and earn love that was never freely given.

Drawing on somatic coaching, nervous system regulation, parts-based approaches, NLP, and energy healing, I help women understand what happened at the deepest level, come home to themselves, and rebuild a life rooted in self-trust, healthy boundaries, and genuine connection.